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Hi, I'm Jill!
I’m a mama-in-training of a highly sensitive son. I love yoga pants, dungeness crab season, and working from my San Francisco flat in my PJs. My mission? To help other mamas raise a thriving highly sensitive child without losing their ever-lovin’ minds!
For highly sensitive children, summer can be both exciting and overwhelming. The longer days and unstructured time offer more freedom—but they can also bring sensory overload, disrupted routines, and emotional dysregulation. Changes that feel minor to others may feel big to a child who processes the world deeply.
These children thrive with calm, low-pressure activities that honor their need for predictability and sensory comfort. This guide offers five simple, inclusive summer activities that help highly sensitive kids of all ability levels feel safe, engaged, and joyful—whether they prefer movement, creativity, or quiet connection.
Many sensitive children enjoy moving their bodies, but may feel overwhelmed by loud or fast-paced environments. A backyard obstacle course offers structured movement in a quiet, familiar space. It also provides a variety of gentle sensory inputs—like pressure, texture, and rhythm—that help regulate the nervous system.
What You’ll Need
Gather a few household or outdoor items to set up the course:
Pool noodles, yoga mats, or cardboard boxes for crawling or climbing over
Pillows or cushions for stepping or balancing
Ribbons, scarves, or blankets for waving or crawling under
Sidewalk chalk for marking a jumping area
Optional: a timer, if your child enjoys predictability or turn-taking
Optional: bubbles or a lavender sachet for a calming sensory finish
How to Set It Up
You don’t need much space—just a small yard, a driveway, or even a room indoors. Set up 4–5 simple stations in a row. Here’s an example sequence:
Crawling Tunnel
Drape a blanket over two chairs or use a large cardboard box.
Invite your child to crawl through slowly, pretending they’re in a cave or quiet forest.
Balance Path
Lay out a yoga mat, line of painter’s tape, or cushions.
Challenge them to walk heel-to-toe or hop from pillow to pillow.
Jump Zone
Use chalk to draw a line or shapes to jump into.
Ask: “Can you do 3 slow, quiet jumps like a bunny?”
Ribbon Dance Station
Tape ribbons to a stick or give them a scarf to swirl.
Encourage slow, flowing movements—like making waves or painting in the air.
Calming Finish Station
End with a sensory wind-down:
Blow bubbles together
Smell a calming scent (lavender, vanilla, citrus)
Sit and take 3 deep breaths together
Let your child repeat the course, change it up, or skip parts. You can make it silly or meditative—follow their energy.
2. DIY Frozen Treasure Hunt
Cold play is regulating for many highly sensitive children. This activity combines curiosity, gentle tactile input, and problem-solving—all at your child’s pace.
What You’ll Need
A muffin tin or small bowls
Small toys, beads, buttons, or natural items (shells, leaves)
Water
Freezer
Optional: salt, warm water in a dropper, or a small spoon
How to Set It Up
Place small objects in each cup of a muffin tin.
Fill with water and freeze.
Pop the ice “treasures” into a bin or tray.
Let your child melt them using warm water, salt, or sunlight to uncover the treasures inside.
3. Nature Sound Walk + Sensory Scavenger Hunt
Highly sensitive children often have a natural gift for noticing small details—like the sound of rustling leaves, the shimmer of light on water, or the texture of a rock. This activity turns that superpower into a calm and joyful adventure that supports sensory regulation and connection with nature.
What You’ll Need
A simple scavenger hunt list or picture guide (items to see, hear, or feel like…):
a smooth stick
a feather
a bird song
a bumpy rock
something that smells nice
something soft
A small bag or basket to collect treasures
Optional: noise-reducing headphones for in-between quiet breaks
How to Do It
Pick a Peaceful Spot Choose a quiet walking trail, a shady garden, a local park, or even your own backyard. The key is to avoid crowds and keep it low-stimulation.
Go Slow—Really Slow Walk at your child’s pace—even if that means stopping every few steps. Let them take the lead. Invite them to use all their senses, not just their eyes.
Use Gentle Prompts Ask calming, open-ended questions like:
“What’s the quietest sound you can hear right now?”
“Can you find something that feels soft or rough?”
“What does the air smell like here?”
“Does this rock feel warm or cool?”
Collect (or Observe) Treasures Let them gather a few safe, non-living items like leaves, pebbles, bark, or petals. If your child prefers not to touch things or is sensitive to texture, they can simply point, take photos, or draw what they see later.
Create a Calm Nature Table When you get home, set up a little “nature table” or shelf with their treasures. Add a magnifying glass, a small flashlight, or a labeled tray to extend the experience indoors.
4. Indoor Light & Shadow Play Station
For children who prefer indoor quiet time, this calming activity supports imaginative play and sensory exploration without overwhelming noise or stimulation.
What You’ll Need
A flashlight or lamp
A blank wall or large sheet
Paper cut-outs, small toys, or your hands
Optional: calming background music or nature sounds
How to Do It
Dim the lights and shine the flashlight at the wall.
Show your child how to make shadows with toys or their hands.
Let them take over. They can narrate a story, create shapes, or just observe the shifting light.
Add color filters (colored plastic or tissue paper) to explore different tones.
5. Water Painting
Many highly sensitive children love to create—but messy or unpredictable materials like paint, glue, or clay can feel overwhelming. Water painting offers all the fun of art without the mess or cleanup. It’s soothing, quiet, and encourages creativity, mindfulness, and movement—making it a perfect summer activity for sensitive kids.
What You’ll Need
A small bucket, bowl, or cup of water
Large paintbrushes, sponges, or foam rollers
A smooth outdoor surface: driveway, sidewalk, fence, patio, or deck
Optional: chalk or natural objects for added exploration
How to Do It
Repeat or Reset as Needed They can paint over and over with no mess or pressure. The act of dipping, brushing, and watching water dry can be highly calming and rhythmic—great for both energetic and low-energy days.
Set Up a Painting Station Choose a shaded or sunny area with a flat surface that changes color when wet—like pavement, brick, or wood. Fill a small bucket or container with water and hand your child a paintbrush or sponge.
Invite Open-Ended Play Encourage your child to “paint” freely using only water. They can:
Paint pictures, letters, or patterns
Cover large spaces with water to watch them evaporate
Draw silly faces, quiet animals, or whatever they imagine
The water will disappear gradually, creating a natural rhythm of creation and release—ideal for emotional regulation.
Add Gentle Prompts if Needed If your child needs a little structure or inspiration, try calm and simple suggestions like:
“Can you draw something that makes you feel peaceful?”
“Let’s paint a secret picture together and watch it fade.”
“How long does it take for the water to dry in the sun?”
Conclusion
A peaceful summer for highly sensitive children isn’t about packing every moment with activity—it’s about creating experiences that truly honor your child’s unique needs and strengths. This often means embracing gentle routines, pausing to appreciate the small wonders around them, and making plenty of room for rest and quiet. When you focus on what feels comfortable and meaningful to your child, you lay the groundwork for calm and confidence.
These activities aren’t about rushing or doing too much—they’re about giving your child what they really need: a chance to feel safe, to choose what feels good, and to connect with the world in their own way. With simple tools and your calm presence, you can help your child enjoy summer days that feel peaceful, joyful, and just right for them—one gentle moment at a time.
5 Easy Summer Activities Your Sensitive Kid Will Actually Enjoy
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